ZAPoly Discussion Topics

• Honesty Honestly Honey : Why it matters
• 51 Shades of Poly : The many faces of polyamory
• Being a poly secondary
• Boundaries
• Challenging the Norms
• Changing mono habits
• Closeted
• Coming Out/Being Out Poly
• Common Polyamory Pitfalls
• Communication, Communication, Communication...and other things to talk about
• Communication skills resources
• Conducting Ethical Relationships
• Conflict and heartache / Conflict Management
• Couple Privilege, the good, the bad and the ugly
• Dating : Dos and Dont's
• Dating Poly Newbies
• Dealing with Health Care Professionals as a Polyamorous Patient
• Dealing With Your Own Heteronormative Conditioning
• Defining Polyamory
• Definitions
• Disney Chemicals a.k.a The Perils of New Relationship Energy (NRE)
• Feel the fear and do it anyway
• Gender Politics and Polyamory
• Happy Poly Moments
• HeartBreak and Polyamory
• How to be polyamorous in a monogamous world
• How to (or not to) spectacularly mess up your polyamorous relationships
• How to manage the expectations of your partner's partners
• How To Stop Assuming
• Intentional Relationships
• Intersections
• Is It A Good Idea To ...
• Jealousy
• Living off the relationship escalator
• Managing Metamours, Old and New
• Making poly friends
• Making Safer Sex Sexy And Fun
• Managing Emotional Crises Within Polyamorous Relationships
• Metamours
• Metamour Conflicts
• Metamour Responsibility
• Mono-Poly Relationships
• Myths and misconceptions about polyamory
• My Weakness
• Navigating Relationships - Invisible fences and fuzzy landmines
• New Relationship Energy (NRE)
• New romances: Defining the relationships and the rules
• Opening Up, the first steps to non-monogamy
• Other People's Rules
• Other People's Safer Sex Rules
• Owning your shit in polyamorous relationships
• Personal Poly Stories
• Polyamory isn’t for everyone
• Poly Rules - bad poly rules and how to make good ones
• Polyamorous Breakups and Practicalities
• Polyamorous Long Distance Relationships
• Polyamorous Relationship Dynamics
• Polyamorous Relationship Structures
• Polyamorous Relationship Agreements
• Polyamorous Relationship Agreements and Maintenance Thereof
• Polyamorous Relationship DealBreakers
• Polyamory and Privilege
• Safer Sex agreements - what to consider when drawing them up
• Scheduling Issues - Managing holidays and special days with multiple partners
• Strategies For Successful Polyamorous Relationships
• Polyamory : Couples Tips 'n Tricks
• Polyamory : what it is and what it isn't
• Polyamory 201
• Polyamory ABC's / Polyamory Basics
• Polyamory Books
• Polyamory In The Media
• Privacy : what to tell and who to tell it to
• Red Flags
• Relationship Checkins
• Resilience
• Scheduling
• Shame and guilt: How and why to challenge your internalised polyphobia
• Sharing, planning and managing Resources in a Poly Family
• Sh*t people say to poly people
• Sexual Communication Strategies in Polyamorous Relationships
• The Best and Worst Parts Of Being Polyamorous
• The Perils Of Unicorn Hunting
• The Poly Paradigm
• This is my guilt
• Tiny rituals and insignificant moments, the small things that make up the big things that make relationships work
• Valentines Day for Polyamorists
• Valentines Venting
• Wash your spoons: Time and Energy Management in Polyamorous Relationships
• What I love about polyamory
• What’s a Relationship, Anyway

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