ZAPoly Discussion Topic : Red flags

Red flags are behaviours, actions, and attitudes of others which give us serious pause to consider either not entering into a relationship, entering therapy and/or ending a relationship.

What are the big bad poly relationship hazard warning signs you've learnt to try to look out for? Whether they be "things to look out for on the first
date" or "things to look out for when in a relationship" or "personal rules I will never cross again because of bad experiences"?

9 Red Flags in Polyamorous Relationships https://poly.land/2017/02/10/9-red-flags-polyamorous-relationships/
"Red Flags" - Warning Signs in Relationships http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1721
Embracing the Inner Hardass : Rules for dating http://polyamorousmisanthrope.com/wordpress/2007/03/04/embracing-the-inner-hardass/
Red Flags https://web.archive.org/web/20060212032456/http://www.hopesplace.net/polyamory/redflags.html
True Story: I Dated An Ex-Pickup Artist https://web.archive.org/web/20170208090253/https://thefrisky.com/2012-10-08/true-story-i-dated-an-ex-pickup-artist/
Poly specific red flags https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9nrz9u/poly_specific_red_flags/
r/Polyamory, what are some red flags you look out for when dating or getting to know someone? https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/aedkqy/rpolyamory_what_are_some_red_flags_you_look_out/
Yes, Abuse Can Show Up in Polyamorous Relationships – Here Are 7 Red Flags to Watch Out For https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/05/abuse-in-poly-relationships/
What are the not-so-obvious red flags when dating a person who is new to polyamory? https://www.iampoly.net/blog/2017/12/12/what-are-the-not-so-obvious-red-flags-when-dating-a-person-who-is-new-to-poly
Red Flags in Polyamorous Dating https://medium.com/polyamory-today/red-flags-in-polyamorous-dating-3387ae009fb0

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