ZAPoly Discussion Topic : The Best and Worst Parts Of Being
Best parts of being poly are that :
Worst parts of being poly are:
- I don't have to choose between one person I love and
another person I love.
- The communication required to make poly work makes for
great relationships in general.
- I'm surrounded by honest ethical people who love me.
- I get to see my partners happy not only with me but with
other people they love.
- I'm living my life on my own terms and not on the
one-size-fits-all de-facto standards of society
- When a partner's partner is quite happy to take over
washing the dishes
- Other people and the messed up things they have to
- Teasing out the root cause of my negative
emotions when I really cannot fathom what a partner sees in a new
- Treading the fine line between honouring all my
partners and not being totally out to everyone we know.
- Feeling like I can't relax with casual social
situations with "normal" people.
-- South African Polyamory http://www.polyamory.co.za
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