ZAPoly Discussion Topic : Mono-Poly

Useful resources

• Support mailing list for polyamorous people in relationships with monogamous people: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/livingpolymono/
• Support mailing list for monogamous people in relationships with polyamorous people: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PolyMono/
• An excellent book to read with your partner: Opening Up by Tristan Taormino http://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X
• I’m monogamous, and I’ve fallen for someone who’s polyamorous! http://www.morethantwo.com/polyformonogamouspeople.html
• A monogamous writer responds to polyamory http://www.morethantwo.com/monoresponse.html
• A dialog between a polyamorous and a monogamous person http://www.morethantwo.com/polymonodialog.html
• Having a polyamorous relationship with a monogamous partner : What your monogamous partner wants you to know http://www.morethantwo.com/bridgingthedivide.html
• https://fetlife.com/groups/2000  MonoPoly - The New Game!
• Lemons and Lemonade http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/images/Lemons_and_Lemonade_-_Poly_Mono_Relationships.pdf
• Cunning Minx's Report from Anita's Class at Poly Living 2009 - http://polyweekly.com/2009/03/from-poly-living-2009-making-lemonade-the-polymono-journey/
• http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/images/A._Wagner_-_Avoid_the_Pitfalls_of_Polyamory.pdf
• http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/images/Jealousy_Updated_10-6-10.pdf
• http://www.practicalpolyamory.com/images/14_steps_to_opening_a_relationship.pdf
• Coming Clean : Transitioning From Cheating to a Polyamorous Relationship http://technomom.com/love/cheatingtopoly.shtml
• Why Would A Monogamous Person Date A Polyamorous Person? https://www.theferrett.com/2018/12/03/why-would-a-monogamous-person-date-a-polyamorous-person/
• Secondary Trouble in Poly/Mono Land - http://practicalpolyamory.blogspot.com/2008/08/secondary-trouble-in-polymono-land.html
• Smart Love: Mono-poly - http://smarter-love.blogspot.com/2010/08/mono-poly.html
• Counseling Mixed Polyamorous/Monogamous Relationships - http://www.aphroweb.net/papers/poly-mono.htm
• When Monogamy and Poly Intersect  - http://polyspace.wordpress.com/2011/01/12/when-monogomy-and-poly-intersect
• Poly/Mono Advice from Mama Jen - http://mamajenadvice.wordpress.com/2009/10/11/poly-mono-relationship/
• A Different Mono/Poly Dialogue - http://irenarowley.wordpress.com/2010/06/17/a-different-monopoly-dialogue/
• Ask Poly:  A Poly-Mono Combination  - http://polytical.org/2012/06/ask-polly-a-poly-mono-combination/
• Is She Really Going Out With Him?  Poly/Mono Partnerships - http://planetwaves.net/pagetwo/polyamory/is-she-really-going-out-with-him-polymono-partnerships/
• How to Love a Polyamorist http://together.guide/how-to-love-a-polyamorist/
• Stories : When a Poly Person Dates Someone Who Is Monogamous https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/bjj9kd/when-a-poly-person-dates-someone-who-is-monogamous

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